with a half filled block I'd run the rods with the normal thou per inch, but on the mains i'd expect you to need to go something real tight... then run like a 0-5w20 in it. So I think you need to either sort your oil cooling (improve it's efficiency) or increase your pump volume, or even both.
Once you do that I think you'll be able to easily go until the heads lift. Just keep torque under control to keep the caps from taking a walk (shouldn't be a problem with this displacement). Also I would recommend an ATI damper if you don't have one. Their testing showed a pretty decent reduction in crank snout flex. I personally think a good damper for high rpm is a must for any engine you want to live. That's my 2c, might not be worth anything, but at least food for thought.
Especially on a stock crank... could also be possible that at some resonance (rpm) the crank is wobbling a bit, and pushing oil out of the mains, which is fine, but then causes lower pressure as it's essentially leaking the wedge. But, again start with an oil analysis. they're cheap. and you can tell if the bearings are taking a beating. Catch something like that early enough and it's a weekend project to drop some new bearings and a pump in.
Or even a new crank. I would trust a 1 grand ccw cheap crank to well above what the heads will stay clamped on stock diameter 4 bolt. There's even a guy who ran the piss out of his 388" (Far north racing on youtube) k1 non ccw crank to like 9k rpm in the traps (those are what $700, but worth to just get the ccw as they're way stronger).
Just figure out why you're dropping oil pressure to make sure it isn't something bad. Then you have options on the table, and can even just swap stuff over to another block. I'm curious if it's just oil temp growing the block.