Man just don't do nothing stupid. Sure seems like the ones that get treated good don't stick around . Sorry dude.

 

Like this guy said "DON'T DO ANYTHING YOU WILL ULTIMATELY REGRET"! There are millions of women who are looking for someone like you and will treat you like you deserve to be treated. I feel bad for you and can't imagine going through it myself but make sure to stand strong for your son, he is looking up to you and will take notes on how you handle this. Good luck.

 

You spent way more time than I would on it. Change the locks on your doors, and call your lawyer.

 

Actually this is good advice probaly the best advice. My dad got my step mom for abandonement . In some states that's a law . She left you now you have proof . Change those locks and don't let her in. I guarantee if you confront her in your house she will call the cops and they will show you to the street. Fuck her, change them locks as soon as you can. Then call her and once she's on the phone send her the picture.

 

Move on dude. She's a fuckin skank!

 

In a nutshell!...
You work your ass off to build shit together.....................she decides she wants out and takes ALL your shit with her!...

Fuck these worthless cunts!...
God gave me two hands................................. and my dick is pretty dumb!... :smt102

 

all i wanted to do was pound on the door, then pound some faces.

so im thinking, tomrrow, if shes back there, i will be making another trip there, checking the mailbox and then unlocking my truck and yanking the ignition and fuelpump relays. and see what shes going to do about it. call me? i very much doubt it. but she doesent have the money for a tow truck, so what else can she do as im a mechanic and its my truck. i want to catch her red handed.

 

all i wanted to do was pound on the door, then pound some faces.

so im thinking, tomrrow, if shes back there, i will be making another trip there, checking the mailbox and then unlocking my truck and yanking the ignition and fuelpump relays. and see what shes going to do about it. call me? i very much doubt it. but she doesent have the money for a tow truck, so what else can she do as im a mechanic and its my truck. i want to catch her red handed.

Don't do anything stupid. I friend from high school just murdered a man about a month ago over this same shit. Found his old lady cheating with an ex co-worker and he drove 2 hours to the mans new home and shot him.

His life is over as he knows it and the cheating wife is going to raise his children and tell them how horrible their father is. One act out of a momentary loss of his judgement is costing him everything and she will move on to find someone else.

It sucks man, Ive never been in your shoes but I do feel horrible for you and what your going through. Talk to friends and whatever else it takes for you to stay strong and move on.

J.J.

 

Dude you know there will be an epic spinoff by morning right?

 

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Oh for sure , but fuck that trick time to snag up the truck and change them locks ! And stay the fuck outta jail my buddy made the front page of the paper about 5 years ago using a the Nextel gps , he bought his wife a new phone and found her at his best friends going to town on the couch , as soon as he seen she was there he went straight in fucked dude up. "man law " . Ended up losing his job over it and a lot of money to get out of it. Different situation thou friends aren't suppose to fuck your wife. In this case just control your temper!!!

 

ideas gentlemen? and yes i am seeing a lawyer this week. although i do still want to work it out with her for the sake of my
family as i still love her, i cant just turn that off after 8 years and she says she still loves me as well.

give me some help guys...please.

Love and Sex are two very different things.
You can love someone, and go have sex with another woman. Clearly she's doing the same.

Is it morally righteous thing to do as we're taught by society ??
No but many people do live this way just fine.

Unless you have an OPEN MARRIAGE and you are able to handle that,
this is simply unacceptable behavior that is totally untrustworthy. Why ?? Because she's lying about it.
It has to be consensual choices to be an acceptable lifestyle so you're already facing an uphill battle.

IF it's happening now, it's because she's desiring someone else sexually.
They can love you all day but the reality is she wants to be banged by someone else.

 

The cold hard truth , society does try to make this ok now a days . It's on every tv channel bill board you name it . Soon no one will get married.

 

Take some advice from someone that went thru the same thing. Let it go. Don't let her back, it's done.

 

This!

 

Don't do anything you'll regret. Save your pictures and your proof for your lawyer. Sucks but you need to wash your hands with her and be done. Even if you work it out...5 years down the road when she goes over to a friends house its going to be branded into the back of your brain that maybe shes really sucking some dudes cock instead.

 

I don't envy you one bit. Bite the bullet and see your lawyer ASAP. Move on cause she apparently has - You will never be able to trust her ever again.

 

Some women cheat and find out they made a mistake, they want to stay with their husband.

Some women cheat and find out they don't want you anymore.

You need to find out whats going on, don't play games, just confront her with the facts.

 

Some women cheat and find out they made a mistake, they want to stay with their husband.

Usually this happens after the guy who bangs them does the "Pump n Dump"

Then the realization kicks in that they screwed up and this guy really didn't want her.

 

Sorry man, sounds like you have the kid and the house.. Send her ass packing, I had to do the same with my wife of 8yrs 5yrs ago, here's how this scenario plays out If you don't break it off and move on.. She gets bored with the new dick and wants to come back home, you welcome her back with open arms and everyones happy for a few weeks/months, some new dick comes along and talks his way into her pants and then your right back to square one.
I told my ex wife I didn't give a shit who she fucked before me but if she fucked somebody after me then her muff is tainted and I'll never touch it again.
I know it sucks ass buddy and I feel horrible for you and the kids(I have two also) but sometimes you have to look at it logically and not through the eyes of "love", the world is covered with women and you and the kid will be better in the long run, I dated many women after divorce and scored one that my kids and I match up with far better than the ex, you'll do the same.

BUT... All that shit is just my opinion, I wish the best for all of you.

 

Sorry man, sounds like you have the kid and the house.. Send her ass packing, I had to do the same with my wife of 8yrs 5yrs ago, here's how this scenario plays out If you don't break it off and move on.. She gets bored with the new dick and wants to come back home, you welcome her back with open arms and everyones happy for a few weeks/months, some new dick comes along and talks his way into her pants and then your right back to square one.
I told my ex wife I didn't give a shit who she fucked before me but if she fucked somebody after me then her muff is tainted and I'll never touch it again.
I know it sucks ass buddy and I feel horrible for you and the kids(I have two also) but sometimes you have to look at it logically and not through the eyes of "love", the world is covered with women and you and the kid will be better in the long run, I dated many women after divorce and scored one that my kids and I match up with far better than the ex, you'll do the same.

BUT... All that shit is just my opinion, I wish the best for all of you.

This is real life shit right here

 

Dude, I know it's hard, but I'd let it go, if you try to confront him or get angry to her into front of her friends, she'll use that against you, the nice guys always do get shit on

 

^^this^^

 

Posting your life on the YB.

Like asking to be kicked in the balls because someone gave you crabs.

 

IF your wife knows you frequent this forum, or if you have a facebook.......

You better set EVERYTHING to private, and stop posting your personal life online.
ESPECIALLY if you say anything really dumb or have on Facebook, they can subpoena that.

Facebook is more of a liability to society when you're in the courts......you have no idea.

 

Down here you can check the county auditors website to see who owns a property, not sure up there.

 

^^^^this

 

Let it go, let her go.

She is obviously done with you. Get yourself a lawyer, try to retain as much of your personal shit as you can, and move on.

All you're doing is torturing yourself. Nothing you do will make her want to come back, and why would you want a cheating whore back? She'd probably do it again. I know you love her, but I don't think the feeling is mutual. You don't do that shit to someone you truly love. I begged and pleaded for my ex wife to come back, I loved her to death, but she didn't love me as much as I did her. Now looking back, I realize that there were warning signs I didn't see before she left, clues that she was going to. Hell, I even sent her a letter telling her how much I loved and missed her, and I'd love to try to work things out. Guess what, no reply and she used that against me in court saying I was stalking her. Do not waste another minute of your life on her! She'll probably use it against you. Get legal counsel, try to keep as much of your stuff as you can, go on about your seperate ways. Like I said earlier, anything else like going again tomorrow night is torturing yourself for no reason.

 

If you want to be smart. Keep everything to yourself, hire a detective, get lots of evidence, then sue everyone in view.

If you want to be not so smart, get emotional, lay your hand on the table, let her know you are onto her, and end up on the street paying for your house for her to live in.

You want your wife gone, and you don't want it to cost you a cent, be smart.

Lots of fish in the sea.

 

If you want to be smart. Keep everything to yourself, hire a detective, get lots of evidence, then sue everyone in view.

If you want to be not so smart, get emotional, lay your hand on the table, let her know you are onto her, and end up on the street paying for your house for her to live in.

You want your wife gone, and you don't want it to cost you a cent, be smart.

Lots of fish in the sea.

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# 3.......PICTURES of Tanya!!!!, nudes, half clothed , etc.......:tonqe:

Your Pal, Gary

 

Hey Stacey. Its cory from nasty bud.

I am going back over there in the morning hopefully with my buddys truck to take pics of who comes and moves those other vehicles. I need to know for sure its not her friends. I guarentee that guy will be coming out to move one. Then i have her good. I need those pics for the lawyer.

What a ****. She has made me feel so bad for almost 3 weeks. Lying and decieving. Turns out what she has been accusing me of is exactly what shes been doing.

 

What a ****. She has made me feel so bad for almost 3 weeks. Lying and decieving. Turns out what she has been accusing me of is exactly what shes been doing.

That's called a guilty conscience, seen it before many times.

Next he'll slap her around once he gets used to her and she'll come begging to come back.

 

I would let her keep the Avalanche and move on.

 

Fuck that. Shes ben blaming me for her leavibg me for 2 weeks no stop. Shes getting nothing. I may just take it back tomorrow night if its at the end of the driveway. I have a buddy who can hide it. What isbshe gonna do. Report me for taking my OWN truck that I make the god damn payments on? Its all in my name.

 

Nonono. Shes not gwtting away with this. Fuck that notion. Telling everyone that im the asshole. Fuck that.

 

having been there years ago,i must agree with the majority,dont do anything stupid.get a lawyer.change the locks.remember,there is a child involved.anger makes you do stupid things,dont let it rule you.

 

Looks like she's made up her mind. Tell her she can't have her cake and eat it too. Change the locks and leave her shit on the front lawn. Be a good dad for your kid and be done with her.

 

I have no plans to confront her on it without seeing my lawyer first.

I have to know beyond doubt that this is the guys house and nit a new girlfriend. When she stays with a gf she tells me. Hell she did last week.

I need proof this guy lives there to show my lawyer so its not all heresay in court. Im not in this to lose. I refuse to lose and the ultimate goal is to have sole custody of my son.

 

I haven't read all the following replies since you made this post but I would advise you to get a female lawyer, they will have no problem ripping the wife a new one where as a male lawyer may have to go a little easier.

 

I dont know if i can kick her out. As the house and mortguage is in her name. We wanted it this way as the next house was going to be bigger and in my name so i can use my first time home buyers discount for us.

But we have been commonlaw and engaged for 5 years. And i pay 75% of the bills. Insurance is in my name and i put close to 20k in this house in upgrades alone. Not to mention landscaping and whatnot.

 

I dont know if i can kick her out. As the house and mortguage is in her name.

But we have been commonlaw and engaged for 5 years. And i pay 75% of the bills.
Insurance is in my name and i put close to 20k in this house in upgrades alone. Not to mention landscaping and whatnot.

Good luck with that.

So this isn't even your wife by law, and you don't own anything there by law.
You're in deep......maybe you should work it out because you are definitely on the big losing end of this scenario.

Buying a home together you can put both names on the title even if the mortgage loan is only in 1 persons who qualified.
So if you don't even have that.......well.....ya know. Good luck.