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#21 ·
I've looked high and low, searched through the couch cushions and under the seat of my truck, even through the trash and I can't find a single fuck to give about my ex....
 
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#22 ·
My Ex is a CPA. Owns her own firm. We dated all through high school. Broke up after graduation, then I met my wife. We still communicate a few times a year. Wish each other happy birthday and ask how our kids are doing. Shit like that. Yes my wife knows. Both of us are happily married and have zero interest of ever getting back together.
 
#23 ·
DeepBrainThrombosis said:
There’s a difference between remembering them, and keeping tabs on them and following them later once you’ve moved on. Unless you had kids or were somehow otherwise intertwined with them through business or something, there’s no reason to worry about what a whole list of EXes is doing after you split with them. That’s just weird as fuck.

I have three ex-girlfriends in particular who I had serious relationships with that lasted years.. I don’t have a clue what any of them are doing today and haven’t had any contact with them since we broke up. That’s normal. Being hung up on old EXes to the point where you make a thread about it and you know exactly what they’re all up to today, that’s stalker shit. Creepy as fuck.
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Maybe it wasn't ALL bad for them! Sometimes shit just doesnt work out.
 
#25 ·
rkupon1 said:
Maybe it wasn't ALL bad for them! Sometimes shit just doesnt work out.
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Absolutely, there’s a million reasons why people break up.. but if you’re really broken up and you move on to someone else, you need to leave the past behind you and move on. For your own state of mind, and for the respect of your new partner. You should not give someone new in your life any reason to question your fidelity and integrity, and maintaining friendships with EXes is almost always going to cause anyone new in your life to worry and wonder on at least some level. We all know just how many people cave in to temptation, especially during times of stress and strife, so if you have real respect for your new partner, you should not have relationships and friendships with EXes.
 
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Go with your Gut!
been married 40 yrs, but did spend 10 yrs. with a girl! she was always close with my relatives who've all passed now and the only time I'd see her was funerals! getting close to my checkout time so I see no harm in talking, Kinda curious what life woulda been! couldn't have been better,just different!I Know my 3 kids wouldn't be who they are!
I have a perfect Wife [no bs]and Lake house, I'm sure there's a lineup waiting for me to GTFO!
 
#27 ·
DeepBrainThrombosis said:
Absolutely, there’s a million reasons why people break up.. but if you’re really broken up and you move on to someone else, you need to leave the past behind you and move on. For your own state of mind, and for the respect of your new partner. You should not give someone new in your life any reason to question your fidelity and integrity, and maintaining friendships with EXes is almost always going to cause anyone new in your life to worry and wonder on at least some level. We all know just how many people cave in to temptation, especially during times of stress and strife, so if you have real respect for your new partner, you should not have relationships and friendships with EXes.
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He didnt say anything about current ones. You did. Thats your justification. Not all break ups are on the worst of terms. A few times a year I find myself standing in the same room with my wife and other women I've had a history with. It happens. It mite not be a big deal for some. Some couples make better friends...I recognize this isnt typical, its just meant to counter your post of the worst case scenario.
 
#28 ·
Sitting af a graduation party for my son, I got to laughing. My ex-wife and her BFF were at the table, along with my ex-SIL and my Mother. Vicki (BFF, whom I lost my virginity too) elbowed hard in the ribs and asked WTF was wrong with me. I simply told her I've been in every pussy here...and got elbowed again....My ex's third husband (RIP) got to laughing as well, he figured it out.
 
#29 ·
rkupon1 said:
He didnt say anything about current ones. You did. Thats your justification. Not all break ups are on the worst of terms. A few times a year I find myself standing in the same room with my wife and other women I've had a history with. It happens. It mite not be a big deal for some. Some couples make better friends...I recognize this isnt typical, its just meant to counter your post of the worst case scenario.
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The fact that not all breakups are on bad terms is not only not a defense, but it in fact makes it even worse to keep them around, because if you’re on good terms with someone you are attracted to, you are even more likely to succumb to your desires in a moment of weakness.

No, the only time it’s acceptable to maintain any kind of relationship with EXes is when there is a specific need for it to happen. The primary and overwhelming reason being that you still have young children together. Outside of that, the circumstances in which your EXes should ever meet or be around your current partner or be a part of your life are extremely limited. This is a self-imposed rule that I follow religiously, because I have enough respect for my current partner to not give them reason to worry or wonder. That is plain and simple common sense for everyone.

The divorce rate in this country is not atrociously high for no reason. The number of people who cheat simply out of convenient opportunity is staggering. Unless you have young children together, the reasons or excuses for keeping EXes around are extremely limited.
 
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#30 ·
My two ex wives aren't doing much at all. They're both dead.

My first marriage failed because the wife required an inordinate amount of attention about the time I was trying to run a very time consuming business. So I shared in the blame there. What I didn't share in was how she responded - by sleeping with everyone on the local high school football team and every member of the 49th Bomber Squad at our local Air Force base....strangers in bars...her karate instructor who was 25 years younger..... I saw she wasn't going to stop so I stopped it, the day I came home and discovered her out on a date with one of the aforementioned Air Force dudes.

I hated it; marriages are supposed to work but shit happens. I did get two great children out of the deal so I'm grateful to her for that.

Second wife was a great lady but 2 packs/day for 40 years is hazardous to your health and lung cancer took her at age 58. Got a loosely-termed 'girlfriend' now but other than that, no more actual relationships. Probably just as well.
 
#31 ·
Guys, don't laugh but I escaped a bullet with my ex fiance. We broke up many, many years ago - I went on to become a big time MAGA, she now works for the democrat party of California, is a huge Sanders supporter, was a delegate for him in Philly in 2016, and almost drown when she was protesting huge cargo ships coming into port in LA while in kayak.
 
#32 ·
Mista Bone said:
Sitting af a graduation party for my son, I got to laughing. My ex-wife and her BFF were at the table, along with my ex-SIL and my Mother. Vicki (BFF, whom I lost my virginity too) elbowed hard in the ribs and asked WTF was wrong with me. I simply told her I've been in every pussy here...and got elbowed again....My ex's third husband (RIP) got to laughing as well, he figured it out.
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Mista, you may not have realized it at the time, but you got some revenge there, they realized it.....otherwise, you wouldn't have gotten the jab in the ribs. Well done, well done.
 
#33 ·
One Ex GF is probably still trying to sort out her head meds. She is an extremely successful Banking Executive, but her personal life is a disaster due to her mental illness. She calls me every now and then, usually after her latest relationship blows up. It was fun while it lasted. She was a lot of fun and could fuck like a porn star. Another Ex GF is probably on her back with a different dude than she was with last night, and has another one lined up for tomorrow. She has literally had a mile of cock run through her and shows no signs of slowing down. I didn’t know her that well when we started dating and when I started hearing the rumors, I dismissed it as small town gossip and hate from other women because she was very beautiful. It was true though. Total deviant slut bag, and no…. I’m not posting her number.
 
#34 ·
Smn1256 said:
Guys, don't laugh but I escaped a bullet with my ex fiance. We broke up many, many years ago - I went on to become a big time MAGA, she now works for the democrat party of California, is a huge Sanders supporter, was a delegate for him in Philly in 2016, and almost drown when she was protesting huge cargo ships coming into port in LA while in kayak.
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Protesting a 200,000-ton container ship in a kayak? Oh, me.... :(

Somebody did you a big favor, pal....(y);)
 
#37 ·
TheRevII said:
Protesting a 200,000-ton container ship in a kayak? Oh, me.... :(

Somebody did you a big favor, pal....(y);)
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She was a very pretty gal with a body to die for and back then neither one of us was political, we were just living the good life. Below is the two of us after I finished shoveling the snow from her driveway. She went on to marry some guy who bailed out because she drove him nuts with all her liberal BS. We still talk from time to time, and because she works for the CA democrat party, she told me back in 2020 her entire off groaned when Biden picked Harris. She hates Trump with a passion but said Harris would be worse.

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#38 ·
I believe she owns an international business of some sorts. I have not spoken to her since 2002. We have mutual friends so I get unsolicited updates from the women in our friends group. When we were together I was nothing but trouble. I’m glad I didn’t slow her down in life.
 
#39 ·
DeepBrainThrombosis said:
The fact that not all breakups are on bad terms is not only not a defense, but it in fact makes it even worse to keep them around, because if you’re on good terms with someone you are attracted to, you are even more likely to succumb to your desires in a moment of weakness.

No, the only time it’s acceptable to maintain any kind of relationship with EXes is when there is a specific need for it to happen. The primary and overwhelming reason being that you still have young children together. Outside of that, the circumstances in which your EXes should ever meet or be around your current partner or be a part of your life are extremely limited. This is a self-imposed rule that I follow religiously, because I have enough respect for my current partner to not give them reason to worry or wonder. That is plain and simple common sense for everyone.

The divorce rate in this country is not atrociously high for no reason. The number of people who cheat simply out of convenient opportunity is staggering. Unless you have young children together, the reasons or excuses for keeping EXes around are extremely limited.
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Smn1256 said:
She was a very pretty gal with a body to die for and back then neither one of us was political, we were just living the good life. Below is the two of us after I finished shoveling the snow from her driveway. She went on to marry some guy who bailed out because she drove him nuts with all her liberal BS. We still talk from time to time, and because she works for the CA democrat party, she told me back in 2020 her entire off groaned when Biden picked Harris. She hates Trump with a passion but said Harris would be worse.

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Yep...when you're young and in love it all looks a lot brighter, doesn't it? If you'd only known....same here; if I'd only known....
 
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