In all likelyhood they are probably still in a state of shock knowing what the kid did and just want to be left alone. Shamed and stunned, trying to deal with it, trying to figure out what went wrong and how they could have missed it....If it had been a son of mine I know I would want to hide. This whole thing impacts everybody differently, you can't explain it. None of it is good but the 9 year old girl tears me up.