If you can't work things out with Ted, get a divorce, then bang Rico. Now, how will Rico ever trust you! If he ever figures out that you were married and was unfaithful, that means, you could be unfaithful to him, IF, he's smart enough to figure it out. If he is smart enough, he will bang you and leave. If he is not, you will get tired of incompetance and cheat/leave him.