Last night we went to my Grandsons award ceremony for ROTC, My wife and I were sitting down the row from my daughter and son-in -law after a little she came up to where we were sitting and seemed flustered. I asked what was wrong, she said I hate him sometimes. So.. I asked what he did, she said he keeps telling her how ugly she is, said he does it all the time. I sat there through the ceremony and getting angrier the longer I sat there. When it was over I went outside and waited for him, when he came out I confronted him and asked him why he would say that. He got flustered and said he didn't mean it and she knew it, I said she is in there about to cry now. I told him to knock it off, I didn't want to hear that again. He took a step toward me and puffed out his chest, I was pulling my arm back to hit him when he turned around and went back in the building. Now everyone is mad at me, My daughter is mad because he was embarrassed, grand daughter is mad because I made her dad mad, my wife says I shouldn't have said anything. Cant win. He would have kicked my butt, he is bigger and more than 20 years younger but I didn't care.