first of all its a th400 on a ford modular motor. when the the trans was going up it was lined up on the pins on the motor but i couldnt push the bell housing flush all the way to the motor. i think now that the bushing that is on the converter wasnt lining up in the crank pilot hole but i made the mistake of using the bolts to tighten the trans to the motor. the bushing did go in and the trans is flush with the motor but now the wont come to the flex plate. it spins fine but when i try bolting it to the flex plate the converter is stuck to the trans and pulls the plate to the converter not the converter to the plate. do i need to just pry the converter free and try again of did i brake something?