How far the top ring is down, really does not matter. It is the thickness between the pocket and the top ring that counts. On a heavy nitrous motor, I like to see .100 as that number. Shallow valve angle head, less pocket depth, the easier it is to get some thickness there. With the combination of parts you are going to have, I suggest a .043, .043, 3/16 ring package. If you go 5.850 rod, 4.00 crank, put the piston .040 in the hole and truly have a 9.025 deck, I get 1.135 for your piston CD. That will work, but it will take a custom piston, with somebody making it, who knows whats up. I suggest Mike Pannetta at Diamond. You could also go closer to zero deck, add some meat on the piston and run a thicker gasket. Several things to look at. You did not mention heads. So the valve angle heads, cam size and how much pocket you need, also come into play. Either way, short CD numbers and a lot of nitrous, means the tune needs to be right.
Monte